A major life decision is never a choice, but rather a realization that the decision has already been made. – Doug Cooper We’re all faced with difficult decisions that we must make. Most of the time, we struggle over large, life-changing choices like ending a relationship, moving someplace new, leaving a job, starting your own business, getting married, and so on. It’s no surprise that … Continue reading How to Make Difficult Decisions Less Difficult
It can be difficult to know how to navigate workplace relationships. We all put too much emphasis on the need to be friends with our coworkers, but it’s not for everyone. Some psychologists would actually argue against having true friends in the workplace, aside from maybe a few people whom you would likely be friends with outside of work if you didn’t work there. Why … Continue reading Do You Have to be Friends with Your Coworkers?
The relationship you have with yourself sets the tone for the relationship you have with others. Ever realize that so often you look externally for specific characteristics and qualities in others – whether it’s in a close friend, a spouse, a partner, a relative, or even a coworker – instead of being those things for yourself? We’re looking for specific things that we don’t possess … Continue reading Instead of Looking to Others, Look to Yourself
A Man is but a product of his thoughts – what he thinks, he becomes. – Mahatma Ghandi The Link Between Thoughts, Feelings, & Your Behaviors What we think and continue to nurture with repetition and emotion, will become our reality. When your thoughts are in control of Self, it’s important to understand the link and recognize harmful patterns so you can work to correct them. … Continue reading The Power of Thought on Self
Multitasking splits your brain! I had to research this to see what happens, scientifically speaking, when I try to multi-task. Whenever I try to do it, I may feel like a temporary powerhouse – oooh, look at what I am doing, so many tasks at once – but that feeling is quickly and always replaced with stress and an intense feeling of unproductivity. I end up leaving … Continue reading Single-Tasking at Work